Ready to Take the Plunge?
My Process
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My Process •
Discover
You're selective. You don't spend your time with just anyone — only those who truly resonate with you. You've taken the time to carefully explore my website and browse my social media profiles. You feel like you have a good sense of who I am and what I offer. And you like what you've seen.
Connect
You'll contact me when you're ready and introduce yourself via email or the booking form. You'll make a good impression with a thorough, kind, and complete inquiry — because that's just who you are. And you won't be shy about your enthusiasm.
Verify
If you haven't already, you'll provide me with your screening information before we discuss the specific details of our time together. You understand how important this is and recognize that enjoyable experiences are built on mutual trust and a shared sense of safety.
COnfirm
Once I notify you that your screening has cleared, we'll finalize our plans. I'll quote you a rate for my time, and you'll officially secure your booking with a small deposit. I'll be sure to confirm all the details for our date, as well as my receipt of the deposit, so you're fully informed before we meet.
Indulge
It's finally here — our special day has arrived. Both of us are freshly groomed and dressed to impress. You quietly hand me the remaining consideration in a discreet, open envelope, perhaps with a sweet note or your favorite book. The outside world melts away until it's only us.
Repeat
We're smitten. There are fireworks. It's a match made in heaven, and we can't get enough. Luckily, seeing me again (and again) is as easy as... well, our chemistry. Just send me an email with the where and when, and pay your deposit to reserve. No repeat verification needed for old friends.
I’m Ready When You Are
The Fine Print
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The Fine Print •
Prices
My hourly rate begins at $600.
In-session extensions are available at $700 for a full hour or $350 for an extra 30 minutes.
I offer $100 off the total booking fee if you provide recent test results, which must be collected within 7 days of your booking date and verified through the testing facility's website. This does not mean that services are unprotected; protection is still required and will be provided for you. For more information about this discount and what tests qualify, see the FAQ.
Additional charges or discounts for specific requests are at my discretion and will be communicated before I require a deposit. My rates are non-negotiable. More information is available in the FAQ.
The deposit is 20% of the total booking fee and will only be collected after successful screening. For longer bookings or those requiring travel, a larger deposit may be necessary.
Drive Me to You (DMTY) and Fly Me to You (FMTY) rates will be discussed on a case-by-case basis.
Compensation covers my time only; any activities during that period are between consenting adults and remain confidential.
An NDA is available upon request.
Screening
All clients must pass screening to move forward with booking and secure their desired dates. Screening is about verifying that the client matches the identity they claim to be. In today’s world, it's very easy to pretend to be someone else. Screening helps ensure the integrity of the booking and my safety. This process is non-negotiable.
If you choose to submit a picture of you holding your government-issued photo ID for screening, please do not block out any information. You can write VOID over the ID with a photo editor or a washable marker, but all details must remain clear and legible.
When providing your phone number, no VOIPs, apps, or burner numbers are allowed. Phone numbers are only used for verification purposes. You will not be contacted by call or text for any reason.
Please do not use your work- or school-affiliated email address when contacting me. To keep our communications secure, consider using a provider like Proton Mail to email me. While it may take me a while to respond to inquiries, I will let you know if I don’t think we’re a good fit. If you haven’t heard from me, it is likely because you used an email address that compromises secure communication.
Etiquette
My favorite inquiries are kind, respectful, and thorough; I love hearing ideas for our date, a little bit about you, and maybe a hint of what drew you to me. Please note that my preference is always to spend time outside of the room with you; flirting over cocktails or holding hands at a show makes our private moments that much sweeter.
Whether relaxed or adventurous, I love meeting friends for fun afternoons and sensual evenings filled with laughter. While I love my beauty rest and wouldn't describe myself as a morning person, I'm flexible and happy to accommodate early meetings.
I am a planner by nature, and my graduate studies limit the time I have available. Please keep that in mind when booking. Availability is not guaranteed. The more notice you give me, the more likely I am to be available.
While tips are never expected, they are the most direct and meaningful way to show your appreciation. Gifts are also welcome! Some of my favorites to receive on a date include a copy of your favorite book, a bottle of wine, whiskey, or tequila, fresh flowers, or a non-toxic artisan candle. Anything thoughtful goes a long way. You're also welcome to spoil me from afar via Cash App or my Marigold wish list.
Let’s Dive in Together
If this feels right, we can make it real. Submit your inquiry using the form, or email all required details to swiminamberlake@protonmail.com, and together we’ll begin planning something warm and unhurried.
Your escape is closer than you think.